5 Ways to Succeed as an Introvert at Work

Being an introvert is tough. We’re made fun of. We’re misunderstood. We’re judged unfairly. We aren’t invited to parties. The list goes on and on. It’s a rough life as an introvert…ok, maybe I’m exaggerating a little. Maybe I’m overreacting and over-generalizing.

Even though much of the criticism introverts get is unfair, I do believe there are things we can do to help ourselves succeed…especially at work. It isn’t enough to accept the introvert label and then use it as an excuse to not excel. The world needs us!

So, here are 5 ways introverts can succeed at work (as uncomfortable as they may be for us):

How to Succeed as an Introvert at Work

1. Speak up.

Introverts far too often (me included) wait too long to speak up, or don’t speak up at all. In group settings, it’s easy for us to fade into the background and over-analyze everything being said. I want to encourage you to speak up. Talk first. When the question is asked, be the first to answer. Give the first response that pops into your head, before you can over-analyze it. You might be surprised how good your gut reaction actually is!

2. Join in.

Are you the one who stays behind when everyone else goes out for lunch because you want (or need) that hour alone? Stop it! Ok, fine. You can stay behind sometimes. But, also join in! Be with the team. You’ll quickly feel like a bigger part of it, and you’ll strengthen your place on the team. Joining in is also a great way to get your voice heard in different settings.

3. Take risks.

I’ve written about the risks every leader should take before. Here, I mean personal risks – putting yourself out there in ways that don’t come naturally. Tell a joke. Plan an event. Go to the party. Pick up the phone and call someone. Be yourself. I can be so risk-averse that I’m afraid to let people see the inside of my life and just…be me. Taking personal risks makes you more approachable, and that will only help you succeed.

4. Make friends.

Introverts are notorious for having a small circle of friends that someone new gets added to once every 20–25 years. I may be exaggerating again. But, making new friends is tough for us. Make it your goal to make ONE new friend at work. Invite them to coffee or lunch. Be the one who makes it happen. Just don’t go crazy and make 2 or 3 friends. One should be plenty for the next decade. 🙂 Friends make all of us better.

5. Stand out.

I left this one for last because it may be the hardest. I want to challenge you to stand out. Be different. Don’t blend in. Don’t fly under the radar. Do something that draws attention to you and the work you do. If you do the first four, you’ll be well on your way. But, commit to one thing next week that helps you stand out…you’ll be glad you did!

Quick Answers

What jobs are good for introverts? Almost any job, including leadership. The key is building in time to recharge and playing to strengths like listening, focus and careful thinking.

How can introverts get noticed at work? Share your work, speak up early in meetings, and build a few strong relationships with people who can see what you do.

Want more? Here’s what introverted leaders have to work harder at. Which of these 5 is the toughest for you? Will you take my challenge? Comment below and let me know…